Effective Communication Strategies for Resolving Church Conflicts: Insights from Matthew 18:15-17

Deanna Beryl Majilang; Franklin Hutabarat

doi:10.35974/isc.v11i7.3426

Authors

Deanna Beryl Majilang Asia-Pacific International University
Franklin Hutabarat Asia-Pacific International University

https://doi.org/10.35974/isc.v11i7.3426

Keywords:

Conflicts, Communication, Church

Abstract

This paper investigates effective communication strategies for resolving conflicts within church communities, with a focus on the teachings of Matthew 18:15-17. This biblical passage outlines a structured, step-by-step approach to conflict resolution that emphasizes the importance of personal responsibility and direct communication. Initially, the passage advises addressing the conflict privately between the individuals involved. If this step fails, the involvement of one or two witnesses is recommended to mediate and confirm the discussion. As a final measure, unresolved disputes should be brought before the entire church community. By analyzing these verses, the paper identifies several key principles vital for effective conflict resolution. These include personal accountability, maintaining confidentiality during initial discussions, involving impartial mediators when necessary, and utilizing community intervention as a last resort. Each of these steps is designed to promote understanding, reconciliation, and unity within the church. The study contextualizes these biblical strategies within modern church settings, demonstrating their enduring relevance. It highlights how these principles can be integrated into contemporary conflict resolution practices, fostering a compassionate and respectful approach. The insights drawn from Matthew 18:15-17 provide a framework for managing disputes in a way that seeks to maintain relationships and community harmony. Ultimately, the paper underscores the importance of adhering to scriptural guidance in conflict resolution, advocating for a process that is not only effective but also reflective of Christian values of forgiveness, reconciliation, and unity.

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