ANALISIS TEOLOGIS PEMAHAMAN DAN PENERAPAN ORANG TUA TERHADAP MAKNA “JANGANLAH BANGKITKAN AMARAH DI DALAM HATI ANAK-ANAKMU” BERDASARKAN EFESUS 6:4 DI GEREJA MASEHI ADVENT HARI KETUJUH JEMAAT PALEM SEMI DAN JEMAAT MAKARIOS KONFERENS DKI JAKARTA

Abstrak

This research is motivated by the violent behavior toward children that is happening and is sweeping to the family of God's people. In response to this issue, the Seventh-day Adventist Church worldwide has launched a program called "Endit Now" (Adventists Say No to Violance). The authors highlighted the potential indication of violence in educating childrens in the Seventh-day Adventist Church of the Palem and Makarios and conducted a random initial research of 40 respondents. The questionnaire results show that the total negative answer is 36.3%. This data is determined by the author to be the initial hypothesis of this problem. This research presents the theoretical foundation based on "Theological Analysis of Understanding and Application of Parents to Mean "provoke not your children to wrath" Based on Ephesians 6: 4. The author highlights the violent behavior of educating childrens in family members of the congregation and its forms, its potential relevance to be avoided by parents to carry out the task of educating children according to the counsel and teachings of God. The research method describes, understanding and applying the Parents to the meaning, "provoke not your children to wrath" based on Ephesians 6: 4 in the Seventh-day Adventist Church Palem Semi and Makarios, Jakarta Conference, in four variables: Against the Competence of Parent Understanding (X1); Against the Competence of Influencing Factors (X2); Against the Competence of Parent Application in Child Care (X3); Against the Quality Competence of People Results in Child Care (X4). The conclusion and the core purpose of this writing as a result of research analysis of respondents' answers that appear in four parts as follows: First, the results of the variable description test X1 (Correct Biblical Understanding of Ephesians 6: 4), found the answers of respondents with a score of 4.38 or 87.6%. This means that the reality of respondents answer pertained category agree. But in the statement number 5 (We rely on the attitude of patience in educating and nurturing our children) has the lowest answer with a score of 3.85 or 77%, then the remaining 23% is the potential for impatience of parents in educating children.Second, the result of the test of description of variable X2 (factors causing violence affecting parents in educating children), found the result of respondent answer with score 3.57 or 71.4%. This means the reality of respondents' answers to variable X2 is classified in the category agreed 71.4% that the factors that cause violence that affect parents in educating children. A very small percentage of the average is 28.6% who say disagree means not affected by factors that cause violence in the care of their childrens.Third, the results of the X3 variable description test (parents apply the responsibility of God to educate their children), found the answer of the average respondents with a score of 4.32 or 86.4%. This means that the reality of the respondent's answer to the variable X3 is categorized as agreed. But in the statement number 22 (We never discriminate the children with one another) found the lowest answer with a score of 4.02 or 80%, then the remaining answer 20% is the potential to distinguish the child-one with another. Fourth, the result of the X4 variable description test (parental care quality of the children), found Results of respondents' answers with a score of 4.13 or 82.6%. This means the reality of respondents' answers to the variable X4 is classified in the category agree. However, in the statement number 35 (Our children were diligently praying and worshiping) the lowest answer was found with a score of 3.95 or 79%, then the remaining 31% of parents did not find their children persistently praying and worshiping, as a potential lack of quality outcomes Old to his children. The conclusion of all respondents' answers to the variables X1, X2, X3, X4, find the score is 4.13 or 71.3%. This means that the respondent's answer about the Understanding and Application of Parents to mean "provoke not your children to wrath” based on Ephesians 6: 4 on average is agreed. But there are potentials of parental violence in parenting children on the remaining respondent's answer that states do not agree that is 28.7%.